How To Spank A Bare Bottom.

Grab the recalcitrant miscreant by the crotch (the "Woo-Woo", the pussy, cunt, the "business", the "store" the labial area, the fun spot, the "amusement park" or whatever you call it) lift her off her feet, administer firm and sharp slaps and spanks to her nether region and the backs of her upper thighs with enthusiasm and commitment. Guaranteed attitude improvement.   :) 

 

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The Booty Report (Spanked and Otherwise).

A couple of bare bottoms I've had to punish, discipline and spank...with pleasure. 

 

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Marine Jahan.

(The dancer that was actually filmed for much of the movie "Flashdance".) 

 

Aly Raisman.

(Olympic Gymnast.)

Jessica Biel.

(American Actress.) 

 

Sexual Domination versus Sexually Dominating.

 

Some people are far too often conflating *being* dominant, which is an innate personality characteristic, with someone "roleplaying" being dominant, as in "to dominate". Okay, let me develop my point before any sort of hostile replies or invective laden rage sets in. 

Domination: dom·i·na·tion /ˌdäməˈnāSH(ə)n/ Noun 1. the exercise of control or influence over someone or something, or the state of being so controlled.  

Dominate: "dom·i·nate /ˈdäməˌnāt/ Verb  1. have a commanding influence on; exercise control over. "the company dominates the market for operating system software"

I see a lot of submissive guys wanting people to advise them on how to "make" their girlfriend or wife "dominant". My contention, or opinion is...well, its posted below. 

 The most submissive actress on the planet can take on a role as a Dominatrix, get trained, put on the attire, and "play" the role of being dominant for a movie. That does *not* make her dominant, she's simply playing a role. The human psyche is such that...most people within the fetish realm, can look back on their childhood and acknowledge that they were "drawn" towards something and were cognizant of it from about age 4 or 5. Interestingly enough, the same applies to many LGBTQIA people where in retrospect they say they "knew" since a young age, they were "different". 

With the former point there is one connecting detail in that, for example, as kids they would get a "tingle" in their belly when a reference to spanking was made, or a cheesy bondage scene on some TV show, or in a book etc. Invariably they would grow up with a penchant for some sort of BDSM interest and lifestyle. This is well documented, most fetish people know it, some researchers and "shrinks" know it, a few statisticians know it, many people do. Other variations of those traits might be known as having a Type A or Type B personality. Alpha versus beta. Risk takers versus those that are inheritably over cautious. Extroverts versus introverts. Much of our personality and interests are created and cemented in our formative years, and of course the nature versus nurture debate could always be had, and it is interesting, but far too complex and mentally exhausting to go into right now.  

(Photo is a screenshot from a home movie.) 

Obviously any version of "domination" versus "dominating" is fine, and roleplay and kinky sex games can be fun. My point is...for those guys that are lifetime submissive, that really, really, really want a life spent with a "dominant" woman, being with, or dating, or hoping to "train up" a hardcore, by nature, that urge residing deep within the soul, unwavering, natural born "dominant" woman, is going to possibly be disappointed as the "experimental thrill" may soon wear off within her. And of course this is just a sweeping general observation and opinion, there are always rare late bloomers, aberrations, anomalies and so on as we human beings are very complicated, plus there are the "part-timer" fetishists, and then those with more of a 24/7 desire, so this would only sort of apply to those that are more hardcore. 

And obviously the same might apply to submissive women that are wanting to "teach" their boyfriend or husband how to be "dominant". I've equally seen about a gazillion threads and posts on forums where women complain how their husband is too vanilla, tame, boring or whatever, and they want him to liven things up. They usually state that the "force" or sincerity, drive and determination is lacking, even though he might go through the motions. And it probably always will, because its not "ingrained" in him. Sure, when a relationship is new, hormones are raging, bodies are slapping, someone is face down and ass up, or on their knees, or elbows, and the passion and lust, the desire to explore and experiment is hot, hot, hot. But that will wane, it will fizzle. 

Without that innate deep seated desire, it becomes a chore for the...non-dominant "Dominant". My point is, its something to consider if its a huge part of ones life, marrying someone where it *isn't* a driving force in their life, and they're doing it just to satisfy their newfound partner. It might be great the first 6 months, or maybe a year or two, but...not so much the next, 60 or so years, assuming both are of good health and live that long, and I hope everyone does.   :)

Spanking - Slapping - Ass Fucking "Consent" Violation...and Damned Proud of It. :)

I met a smoking hot, bright, intelligent, charismatic kinky woman some years ago. She wanted to be dominated and as she had replied to an ad I had placed about domination, who was I to deny her this opportunity and experience? Some of her photos/videos are/will be on this blog.

 She got spanked a lot, by me. OTK, bare bottom, hand, leather implements, a bit of caning, hairbrush, etc. She also got slammed against the walls and doors, body slammed on the bed, just generally "mussed up", picked up with one hand and had her pussy slapped with the other, lots of oral on demand, fucked, copulated, pussy pounded, and...you get the point. After months of spanking and rough this and that, one night while she was in the "throws" (as morons spell it, lol) of passion, I slapped her. (She once said she did not want to be face slapped.) Light to moderate, no warning, you know, across the face, hand to the fleshy part of her cheek...slap. She squirted all over the bed and down her thighs, moaned, flushed, groaned, was doing that chick undulation thing, you know how they do, jiggly body parts jiggling and wiggling, and then a bit later...she got ass fucked. She came back the next day for more. That was years ago, and she's still in my life today, but not within this context. 

My point is about...domination. Pushing boundaries, expanding same, experiencing new things, being pushed, being dominated as in...domination. See, there are people that are into BDSM that don't want to spend 57 hours "negotiating" a "scene" (you know, Fetlife types, most, but not all). Scenes are something munch and play party attendees (munchites? munchkins?) engage in with their little part time BDSM, weekend warrior outing events...which real (yep, I said it, lol) BDSM lifestylers generally avoid, plus we often laugh at those sorts of people. We laugh at them because they're missing about...98.2% of what BDSM is about...domination. For them, a "scene" is where you have 14 lawyers confer over contracts for 23 days about whether or not the two participants will...shake hands or just nod to each other when greeting...and then the "scene negotiations" really get complicated and detailed from there.

 These are the same type of people that write mind numbingly long, pedestrian, boring as fuck "How To" guide/diatribes where they use the term "Red Flag" 47 billion times, and some of these nitwit twatwaffles actually put the "Red Flag" emoji in their posts...like teenagers, lol, fucking douchebarges. They use terms or acronyms like RACK, SSC, PRICK, and maybe others like DFOW or GKWHGE and maybe OCWKLES, who the fuck knows, and they use 247 different pronouns, are straight, but call themselves "Queer" and are generally trainwrecks of human beings that would garner sympathy and pity...if they weren't so fucking obnoxious.

Of course they, and their agenda are why play parties and munches are dying, plus, they tend to be drama queens, gossips, and just generally a pain in the ass on pretty much all points and in all ways. Anyway...domination. Where one person sexually dominates another...yeah, it can be fun, as long as you avoid the "Experts" who are mostly...neophytes that know fuckall about BDSM, because they spend very little time doing it, and spend most of their time sitting around babbling and/or writing...lawyer negotiated "scene" contracts. 

A word to simps...you want to know why you can't find a submissive woman to dominate? Because submissive women don't like...wussy simps. They don't respect you. They are not attracted to you. You are not capable of properly dominating a woman if you ask her, beg her, plead with her, cajole her, to touch her hand, or to kiss her, or to spank her, or to...whatever else...her. That's not domination. That's like a pathetic teenage virgin boy with a boner, praying to the "Erection Gods" that if you are nice and polite, she might let you touch her tits...if you're a good little boy. That's not domination...that's just fucking sad. And it's one reason why submissive women are always writing posts, wondering where all the "Real Men" have gone...domination wise. Anyway, I'm sure some people need to get back to their "Red Flag Non-negotiated Consent Violation Warning Alert Hysteria Blast" posts...that no one gives a flying fuck about. And if anyone conflates what I wrote above with rape or abuse or whatever other stupid ass nonsense...because you're stupid...go fuck yourselves.  :)