Obviously every guy has his preferences in how a woman looks, dresses, her wardrobe, attire, her hair, nails, makeup, jewelry and everything else. And of course every woman should wear whatever she desires, what compliments her, what suits her everyday life, her career, job and her desires, but I am somewhat confused by what some women select. From what little social media I do, from mainstream articles, videos, overheard conversations, a lot of women sure do complain about the hassle, expense, the time spent on achieving a certain "look" and many don't really seem to enjoy it. What baffles me is, most guys I know prefer a woman that is casual, minimal makeup, a bare minimum of jewelry and just some basic clothes.
So, are women doing this to attract men, or to impress other women? I know a lot of them say they're doing it "for themselves" but come on, no one, say on a day off, who is just going to lounge around home alone all day, is going to spend an hour putting on makeup, doing their hair, spraying things, dabbing things, doing whatever the hell it is they do, then spending a half hour selecting the perfect outfit, just to sit at home alone. So regardless of what they may state, they're doing it to either appeal to men, or to impress other women. If it's for the benefit of other women, I don't get it. If it's to appeal to men, wherein most men prefer basic attire and simple makeup, why do they put in all that effort and hassle? It makes no sense to me.
The same with lingerie. I prefer white cotton panties and, I guess they're called a baby doll nightgown? Not sure about that, or what makes one nightgown clothing article fit that title as opposed to others, but for me, simplicity is sexy. It's her that I find sexy, the woman, her body, soul and mind, her attitude and sense of humor, not her clothes or makeup and jewelry. I mean, I'm not dating the "wrapping paper", nor am I turned on by it, but by the woman beneath and underneath it. Same with outerwear. Jeans, cutoffs, flip-flops, regular old tennis shoes, a t-shirt, wife beater (no pun intended) or just jeans, boots and a flannel shirt. Again, it makes no sense to me. Women spend a trillion dollars on this stuff, complain about having to put it on, how often it's not comfortable, how makeup is bad for their skin...so from the standpoint of a guy, most men would say...fuck it, and just not do it. :)
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