Fidelity and Honesty.

                               

  One of the downsides of the Internet is social media, as we all know. Sure, there has always been people that were disloyal, that lied, cheated, that had no conscientious scruples, but the Internet has only made it easier for those types of people to engage in their perfidious and nefarious acts.   

Over the course of my life, when single, I would/will "play" with women, one at a time, and always with honesty. If it's a mutually beneficial arrangement where neither party has any expectation of anything developing beyond the activity at hand, no one has hopes or desires beyond that, great. But if I am in a relationship, I am 100% committed to that woman. I have never, would never and will never cheat or go behind her back...ever. That sort of betrayal is one of the most disrespectful things a human being can do to another human being. My word means something, to others, but mostly to me. I want to be able to look at myself in the mirror and know that I'm honest, upfront, straight with other people, and can respect myself, which I would not be able to do, meaning have self-respect, if I was not honest.   

I just don't get how some people can just "use" other human beings and then discard them like refuse. The most important thing in life is other people. Friends, family, lovers, neighbors, husband, wife, kids, whomever, and in whatever type of relationship. Cars, homes, money, possessions, things that can be bought, they come and go and none of that really means much in the grand scheme of things. But people do matter. Their health, well-being, happiness, emotional balance, their feelings matter to me, always have, always will. The impetus behind this post is just from browsing around the web, seeing posts, things on YouTube, and it's just stunning to me how others don't value those interpersonal relationships with people in their lives. And more to the point, they're not happy, but can't figure out why.

It's really not that complicated. Religious or not, the Golden Rule applies. 

Do unto others, as you would have others do unto you.

Treat people how you want to be treated.   :) 

Christmas Season...

                                          

Domestic Discipline Style...

Coal in the stocking, is out.  

Bigger Fetishists: Conservatives or Liberals?

                              

(Photo above is a screenshot from a home movie.)

So there I was, minding my own business when a thought popped into my head (Don't you just hate it when that happens?) and I began wondering if conservatives are kinkier than liberals or the other way around. I hate the very strictly delineated "left/right" description, as I don't think a good part of people really view themselves that way as opposed to being "forced into a box" by statisticians, pollsters, political parties etc. but anyway, the question remained. Obviously there is not a lot of data on this, and how could there be as it's not something that can be scientifically proven, it's totally arbitrary and subjective both in what a "fetish" is, and political affiliation, but here is some information. 

One thing to consider in dominant versus submissive roles, is a need for control often reflected in conservative ideology and its adherents. For some conservatives, this may translate to taking on a dominant role in bed, a position defined by exercising control over another. Liberals, on the other hand, are not easily affected by pain, according to a 2017 study of political ideology and personality, and also more flexible, curious and open — the combined effect of which may make liberals more interested in assuming a sexually submissive role and relinquishing power to a dominant partner.

Republicans tend to prefer fantasizing about sex outside of marriage:“infidelity, orgies, swapping, from 70s-style ‘key parties’ to modern-day forms of swinging,”. Republicans reported more voyeuristic fantasies like going to a strip club or watching one’s partner have sex with another person. Democrats, were more likely to favor fantasies that included domination and power dynamics, including BDSM.“The largest Democrat-Republican divide on the BDSM spectrum was in masochism, which involves deriving pleasure from the experience of pain.” 

The GOP runs on a platform idolizing the nuclear family and, consequently, traditional notions of marriage. This means activities like extramarital affairs, orgies, and partner swapping are strictly off-limits, and that makes them exciting. It may explain why there are more Republican than Democrat members of Ashley Madison, the dating service for people already in relationships. Republicans are more likely to fantasize about strip clubs, cuckolding and other things of a more voyeuristic nature. In contrast, Democrats are a party that strives for greater social, economic, and political equality – and yet, they fantasize about masochism, bondage, and dominance-submission play. Some reckon it is the blurring of consent and imbalance of power in BDSM that makes it taboo, drgo exciting for Democrats.

Kinky Conservatives: Exploring the Right-Wing Fetish Community.

So there is no clear consensus, but it does appear that those on the left and right are equally kinky, but just in somewhat different areas or preferences of kink. Having lived in both very conservative cities and states, I can attest that I've personally not noticed much difference based on that in relation to kinky fetish people, the numbers of munches, parties, or women wanting a good hard bare bottom spanking or a disciplinarian. I have no idea on what transpires in the LGBTQ community though as I am straight, but I presume the interest level is the same.  

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The same women in my videos and photos being spanked here, are written about in my books.  

   Spanking Women's Bare Bottoms And “Stuff” Kindle Edition   

Spanking Women's Bare Bottoms And “Stuff” Paperback

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The book below is a lighthearted humorous little tome about sex in relationships. It's for fun, and not to be taken seriously. The world is quite intense these days, some humor often helps. 

Dude, If You Like Sex? Never Get Married. Ever! (Paperback)

Dude, If You Like Sex? Never Get Married. Ever! (Kindle)

  

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Work out People. Just Work Out.

                               

It's that time of year. It's cold, the days are short, less sunlight, for some there are Holidays, Thanksgiving, Christmas, New Years, where there is an overabundance of food and drink, fatty food, sugar, pies, fudge, gravy, sauces, alcohol, drinks, parties, eggnog, lounging, sitting around, hanging out, and the human body wants to vegetate, be in repose and pack on pounds of lard and fat and even more fat. It's easy to do. Getting into bad shape takes no effort at all. You don't have to apply any effort for it to happen. It is, the easiest thing in the world to "accomplish". 

When we exercise, the main body chemical affected is endorphins, which are released during exercise and contribute to feelings of pleasure and pain reduction, often referred to as a "Runner's High.". Or in our line of "work/play/pleasure" one could call it the "Spanking High" as the very same endorphins that are affected during exercise are affected receiving a good hard bare bottom spanking. Some people call this "sub space", but it's essentially the same thing. 

 Other chemicals impacted by exercise include: 

Dopamine: Plays a role in motivation and reward, increasing with exercise.  

Serotonin: Linked to mood regulation and can be elevated with physical activity.  

Norepinephrine: A neurotransmitter that increases alertness and energy during exercise.  

 Brain: Exercise positively impacts brain chemicals, improving mood and cognitive function.  

Stress: Exercise lowers stress hormone levels by releasing endorphins and other chemicals.

Exercise can mean just about anything. Just...movement. Walking, dancing, sit-ups, sex, hiking, weight lifting, skiing, tennis, Pilates, Yoga, strenuous house cleaning or yard work, swimming, rowing, pretty much you name it. It does not have to be something to dread. Find something you enjoy that will burn some calories, that will contract the muscles, stretch things out a bit, pump some clean oxygen into your lungs, and just go about doing it. It wards off depression and can help alleviate anxiety. You'll feel better, be stronger, have better quality of life, sleep better, look better and live longer. There is no downside to doing it safely and using common sense. Warm up slow, stretch out, no ego lifting or Type A personality feats, just slow, progressive and productive body maintenance and improvement. Okay, now that I've finished "preaching"...might be time to have some Brandy and a Cigar. 😁

OTK Bare Bottom Spanking.

Excerpt below from: 

          Spanking Women's Bare Bottoms And “Stuff”   Kindle Version

                 Spanking Women's Bare Bottoms And “Stuff”   Paperback Version 

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She stood beside me while I was seated on a stiff backed hard wood chair. Her nervousness and excitement was palatable. I had already mostly undressed her, removing most of her rather prim and formal attire, dispensed with a stern scolding and placed her on eye restriction. Every command or question was followed with “Yes Sir" or “No Sir”. The position (OTK) does mean that there will be some body to body contact. As I took her over my knee her mons was pressed into my thigh, and as I administered the spanking she moved around a bit, undulating, a bit of grinding and leg kicking.  

After some moments, she became increasingly aroused and that distinct and very pleasant aroma (of female arousal) permeated the room which added to the excitement. Many people find the sound of the hand (or implement) as it connects with bare flesh exciting. I am one of them. My watching her bottom bounce and wiggle, turning red, hearing her moans and heavy breathing, and her knowledge of being viewed by me, mutually hot and exciting. Exposed. Vulnerable.  

For many (or most perhaps) people while growing up we are taught that not unlike our genitals, the bottom is a "naughty" area or private and should not be exposed to anyone other than a parent or doctor. Some people may then associate being nude or bare bottom with some oblique form of humiliation. Some find this titillating and a bonus of sorts, while being spanked. Others may not or may just prefer to see those emotions in a different light. The position (assuming its OTK) means that there will be body to body contact. There is also the view to consider of the spanker, and the knowledge of being viewed by the spankee.  

 Having a submissive woman's bottom bared and exposed is erotic to me on so many levels. I love the sound, the positions, the marks left behind, the power and the control. I just like to leave her, gasping, moaning, writhing, undulating, gyrating, percolating, “orgasmicating”, contrite, and totally…”mussed up”. I mean some people would use the rather overused term of a “Hot Mess”. I get it, but why is it not called a “Spicy Disaster” instead of a hot mess? I want to “do her” so when she hits the "Smoldering Catastrophe" status, it hits the local news.  :)

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The same women in my videos and photos being spanked here, are written about in my books.  

   Spanking Women's Bare Bottoms And “Stuff” Kindle Edition   

Spanking Women's Bare Bottoms And “Stuff” Paperback

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The book below is a lighthearted humorous little tome about sex in relationships. It's for fun, and not to be taken seriously. The world is quite intense these days, some humor often helps. 

Dude, If You Like Sex? Never Get Married. Ever! (Paperback)

Dude, If You Like Sex? Never Get Married. Ever! (Kindle)

  

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Booty Test.

 

 

Just trying to figure out what Blogger is allowing, what they're removing, why their stupid bots are messing with so many bloggers...etc. 

New Girl - Spanking Home Video. (Repost.)

                               

2nd effort with this. When I posted it before, it was removed by Blogger bots so no idea if it will be allowed to remain in place. 

She's a junior in college. She placed an ad looking for a disciplinarian. I replied. We conversed back and forth for a time. She wanted someone trustworthy, to hold her accountable to ward off the typical urges of youth, to stay on track, to stay focused on studying, not slagging off on classes, remaining goal driven, not partying with her friends too much and staying up half the night out drinking and getting into trouble. So naturally, who was I to deny her this opportunity right? I mean, I am all about trying to help others improve, so, it is incumbent on me to assist her with this correct? Me, all about benevolence. :)

 With anyone "new" I tend to do a bit of an "introductory" lesson. Meaning just a session with a variety of implements, starting out light, sort of rotating around to gage her reaction, tolerance levels, sincerity, and then slowly increase it over the evening and in future punishment sessions. Anyway, this was the 1st time, which then went on for quite a bit, in length, duration, intensity and severity. Since then she's been to my home multiple times for discipline, for bare bottom spanking, corner time, both before and after, and is now leaving with a very mottled and soundly punished bare bottom...plus she lives about a half hour from me so she has the discomfort of a bit of a drive on her way home, with a sore bottom to deal with and for reflection. And I should add, this is a discipline/punishment relationship only, not sexual, nothing else as I would never, ever, ever allow anything else to progress beyond what we initially discussed and mutually agreed upon.

(Okay, there was that one time with one young woman where the nature of our relationship evolved a couple of years back, but that was different as some of that was discussed prior to the first meeting, and it was a sort of "wing it" type situation, but that's another story for another time.)