Number of People into Spanking - BDSM.

 

I got curious what percent of people are into some sort of spanking fetish, BDSM, kink or whatever, so decided to do some research. Obviously there is no way to ascertain with any certainty or accuracy as the terms are rather fluid, not clearly delineated, some people might not want to answer, some might not tell the truth, plus, it's not like anyone could ever do a global poll. 

Anyhow, what did come up in searches was: 

A 2016 New York Post article reported nearly 45% of people were interested in fetishes, but only 26% acted on it. A 2018 study by EdenFantasys found one third of Americans had a specific kink or fetish. 

Spanking/whipping someone for sexual pleasure: 24 percent women + 43.5 percent men. 

Being spanked or whipped: 36 percent women + 28.5 percent men.

Being forced to have sex: 29 percent women + 31 percent men.

Being dominated sexually: 65 percent women + 53 percent men. 

Dominating someone sexually: 47 percent women + 60 percent men. 

Being tied up during sexual activity: 52 percent women + 46 percent men

Research suggests that a substantial percent of people fantasize about or engage in BDSM. 

A 2005 Durex survey found that 36% of US adults use bondage tools, blindfolds, and masks.

A 2005 Durex survey found that 20% of adults worldwide use bondage tools, blindfolds, and masks. 

1953: A study found that 55% of women and 50% of men liked being bitten. 

1999: A study found that 65% of university students dream about being tied up

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The same women in my videos and photos being spanked here, are written about in my books.  

   Spanking Women's Bare Bottoms And “Stuff” Kindle Edition   

Spanking Women's Bare Bottoms And “Stuff” Paperback

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The book below is a lighthearted humorous little tome about sex in relationships. It's for fun, and not to be taken seriously. The world is quite intense these days, some humor often helps. 

Dude, If You Like Sex? Never Get Married. Ever! (Paperback)

Dude, If You Like Sex? Never Get Married. Ever! (Kindle)

  

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I Fully Support Cross-Dressing.

 

Because, you know, traditionally and historically women only wore dresses and skirts. So, women wearing jeans...means they are cross-dressing. Yes, yes it does. No double standards allowed. If women can wear pants, men can wear skirts. Anyway, I don't care about men wearing skirts, nor have any desire to see them, in skirts, or jeans, and certainly not nude as...I am heterosexual and only enjoy seeing the female posterior in jeans. (Or shorts, or dresses, skirts, bikinis, jogging pants, yoga pants, nude, in panties, bent over, did I already mention nude? Bent over and nude is best. Just saying it again...nude.) Anyway, I am very supportive and happy about...all the cross-dressing women...in tight jeans.  :) 

 

Riding Crop Spanking Home Movie.

Home movie, filmed with a cheap webcam. 

The best kind, because it's...real.  :) 

 

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The same women in my videos and photos being spanked here, are written about in my books.  

   Spanking Women's Bare Bottoms And “Stuff” Kindle Edition   

Spanking Women's Bare Bottoms And “Stuff” Paperback

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   The book below is a lighthearted humorous little tome about sex in relationships. It's for fun, and not to be taken seriously. The world is quite intense these days, some humor often helps. 

Dude, If You Like Sex? Never Get Married. Ever! (Paperback)

Dude, If You Like Sex? Never Get Married. Ever! (Kindle)

  

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Spanking - Training Methods.

 

   I tend to lean towards the more conventional style of corporal punishment, meaning domestic discipline and traditional bare bottom spanking. However, depending on some Doms personal lifestyle, desires and preferences, some training methods may also include service oriented submission, being a house maid so to speak, with a French maid or Victorian household theme, or even from other eras or cultures should that be the case. It is called "training" for a good reason.

For others training in manners, poise, grooming, proper selection of wardrobe and attire with the requisite accessories are of paramount importance. Training her how to sit, stand, speak, genuflection, perhaps bowing, how to curtsy, there are many variations that apply to the accomplishment of the end result, the finished "project" if you will. From the very tame and mundane chores like teaching her the proper place setting of a dining room table, to the sexually humiliating demands by mentoring her how to properly fellate a cock. All may be of great importance to some, as every Dominant has his own agenda and impetus behind undertaking a challenge such as this.

Sure, many submissives are rather compliant from the offset and easily malleable. Using those as a training and reward method, the carrot and the stick so to speak, are not going to be as effective as say public humiliation, certain other forms of corporal punishment, anal punishment or being more of a sex slave as opposed to a "trad wife" for example.  

    It's important to identify reasons for a punishment, and also obviously limits. Some submissive women might require heavy-handed administration, others need a lite touch, some may resist and need to be encouraged in a positive manner, to achieve self acceptance of her role in the relationship. Obviously respect of the submissive is very important. Assigning tasks that are repugnant, or extreme severity, brutality and so on are an abuse of the Doms role and power, and need to be avoided. Being strict and stern, unyielding and demanding should never equal abusive.  

Open communication is essential. Some Doms may require a report from the submissive after each spanking, be it moderate or more severe. The same with scolding. Was it on point, too harsh, was there too much subtle nuance or words or directions that were not understood? Keep in mind that during, prior to, or right after a sound spanking the submissive may be a ball of quivering flesh (sub space as some term it). Interrogation at that moment might not be a wise idea. Time and place is important. You want to create a certain ambiance, in a quiet and comfortable room, maybe next to a fireplace, drapes drawn, where she feels secure and safe. When that is assured if she fails to be forthcoming with her answers, sure, short, quick slaps to her bottom, not brutal, but sound and firm, will satisfy your desire for adequate replies to your questions that she needs to answer, as it is important, and required.

 

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The same women in my videos and photos being spanked here, are written about in my book.  

   Spanking Women's Bare Bottoms And “Stuff” Kindle Edition   

Spanking Women's Bare Bottoms And “Stuff” Paperback

~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~

   The book below is a lighthearted humorous little tome about sex in relationships. It's for fun, and               not to be taken seriously. The world is quite intense these days, some humor often helps. 

Dude, If You Like Sex? Never Get Married. Ever! (Paperback)

Dude, If You Like Sex? Never Get Married. Ever! (Kindle)

  

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Grateful For Lovely Days.

 

 

 Ever have one of those days where everything is just perfect? You wake up feeling good, life is fine, nothing bad happens and you realize how fortunate you are? The air is clean, the sky is clear, vivid, the trees and plants are resplendent, the food you eat tastes better than usual, every single aspect of your day is just fantastic? Love when that happens. You just feel grateful, as most of this happened to you, and not of your own volition. You just feel lucky and blessed.  :)

Dude, If You Like Sex? Never Get Married. Ever!

Dude, If You Like Sex? Never Get Married. Ever! (Paperback)

Dude, If You Like Sex? Never Get Married. Ever! (Kindle)

 

A humorous look at the reality of wedded relationships and sex (or lack of) within the confines of the "bondage" of marriage. Wedded Bliss and Marital Sex: Everything is done to “woo your wood” with and by, their womanly wiles, and to encourage your biological urges to pound that wantonly womanly womb. Its a trap Dude. And I fear you, like so many others, will fall for it.  

 Here is the reality of sex within the confines of a marriage told to you by one who has first hand knowledge of it. And my “first hand” I really mean,you get my point. Take my advice, or not. If you choose not to, its at your peril. And by “peril” I really mean potential carpal tunnel and calloused palms, and you don't even do any sort of manual labor….

Thigh Spanking.

 

Some short edited clips, from my personal "home video library". Bare thighs, sides and back, should not be ignored when administering a discipline spanking. Use caution and common sense of course, but the fleshy areas should be "tended" to as well as her bare bottom. 

 

 

 

The same women you see in my videos here being spanked, are written about in the book below.  

   Spanking Women's Bare Bottoms And “Stuff” Kindle Edition   

Spanking Women's Bare Bottoms And “Stuff” Paperback