I don't spend time on social media, and in fact I don't even have accounts with any of them. However periodically, I come across compilation videos on YouTube and news articles, and some of the information, data and attitudes are quite stunning.
One example is the plethora of women that say they "don't need no man" but then spend all their time on TikTok talking about dating apps, how men suck, going on dates, talking to "dating coaches" (who are almost always single with a string of divorces and bad breakups) and deleting and reopening dating apps, crying and whining about being single, jealous of their girlfriends that are engaged or married, while interjecting invective laden pejorative assaults on men, but then wanting to date men, while slamming men and...it makes no sense.
Apparently a lot of them call themselves "Boss Babes" or "Boss Bitches" or some variant, and consider themselves to be "Alpha" (which is literally impossible) and harp on and on about how awesome they are, but are ran through, railed, complaining about being broke and want men to pay for their dates, hair, makeup, clothes, car loans, utilities, rent, while tweaking their elbows and shoulders from patting themselves on the back for being "a strong independent woman" and...what?!
So, for the #BossBitchBadAssBabes: In 2015–2018, 17.7% of women and 8.4% of men took antidepressants. Women take twice as much. 24.3% of women aged 60+ take antidepressants. Rock on you "strong" women, right sister? Wait. If they're so happy being single and paying their own bills and taking out the trash, why are so many taking antidepressants?
And along the same lines where in public the majority state they're "empowered, don't need a man, Alpha women" and are dominant and refuse to yield to a man: Collectively, the Fifty Shades movie trilogy earned a worldwide box office total of roughly $1.32 billion. And I don't think those numbers include the money the author made, and probably the "swag" and merchandise so for all we know it could be approaching $2 billion. I'd love for some of these "Alpha" women...to explain that. It was women that loved it. I mean it was probably about 95% women that read the book, saw the movies, and the other 5% were simps being drug into the movie theater, who tried not to laugh at it.
A recent study showed that 73% of millennial women are unhappy in their job. 73%. That is quite a shocking number. One would presume the number is different for other demographics of women, but either way, overall, women don't like their jobs and hate having to work outside the home. It's not as wonderful as 1st and 2nd wave feminism tried to convince them it would be. Pretty much work sucks, being a slave to the clock, male or female. Let's face it, if people had the option no one would work. Get up late, check some news, leisurely have breakfast, take a shower, lounge, go to the gym, go shopping, go out for lunch, take a nap, do some hobbies, take a nap, go out for dinner and drinks, that's how people would spend their day...not working for some jackass boss.
According to a YouGov survey, 21% of women would prefer to be submissive in bed, compared to 4% who would prefer to be dominant. A Washington Post study found that 30–60% of women fantasize about being dominated, spanked, whipped, tied up, or forced to have sex.
Look, I have no political agenda in this. I freely support egalitarianism (which is not the same as feminism). People, male and female, should do what they want. My point is...why are they/you lying? Are women lying to each other about all the Boss Bitch Babe, wanting to be single, don't need no man, wanting to pay their own bills and clean out the gutters thing? Are feminist pushing professors (many who appear to be misandrist lesbians with an axe to grind, and perhaps penis envy) lying with their "Feminism 101" college classes? Are women refusing to publically state their distaste for some of the more hardcore feminist ideology out of fear of not "supporting the sisterhood" and being scorned for wanting to be a "Tradwife" or traditional girlfriend? If women privately hate working, hate being alone, want to be sexually dominated and are taking the majority of antidepressants...they're lying to themselves and each other. Men have nothing to do with this. This is a woman thing. If being free, having options, being empowered, having autonomy, personal agency still means they have to lie to themselves and each other rather than being true to self and seeking happiness, then in reality the biggest lie is...3rd wave feminism right? Right.
Stop blaming men for your misery and discontent. There has never, ever, ever, been a time in the history of the world, anywhere in the world, that women had it better. Stop sounding stupid spewing nonsensical verbiage about the "Patriarchy". pa·tri·arch·y: noun: a system of society or government in which men hold the power and women are largely excluded from it. The "Patriarchy" simply does not exist in the Western world and has not for 50 to 100 years. Women can work, vote, drive, travel, get educated, breed or not, run for political office, there is nowhere, that women are excluded. The "Patriarchy" simply does not exist.
All of the aforementioned was "mansplained" with accuracy and veracity. I only throw the last bit in to piss off some rabid feminazi types as...it amuses me. 🤣😁
